Agonotheta

Heya,
You know what, maybe its you who has the problem not the girls. You might just be freaking out that it will get serious and you'll get married and that'll be it, just one woman so you start finding problems with them. I know i used to do that, if i was going out with someone over a month I'd dump them for no reason, i was just afraid of commitment.

So, you think its my fault, huh? I just think I'm being picky. I don't want to settle. I want a girl who is perfect. Not necessarily perfect in general, just perfect for me.

There's a famous quote that says, "you come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly."

So far in my life and as far as I know, I haven't come across a woman who I think is perfect for me. The problem is not commitment. The problem is finding somebody worthy of committing to. Not that I can't find any decent women. I've found plenty, actually. Just that I can't find one that is decent and seems normal enough (read "my type") to commit to.

I'd really hate to find myself married to somebody who I don't have anything in common with or who isn't physically attractive to me. Its sort of funny, but lately, I've been trying to figure out if I'm too old (i.e. mature) to dump somebody because I'm not attracted to them physically, despite liking their personality. I think I'd have to break up with them because I know I wouldn't be in a relationship with somebody for very long if I wasn't attracted to them.